Useful Constraints

Constraints improve creativity, increase productivity, and make life more enjoyable. They can provide clarity when we are presented with seemingly infinite options. At first, this feels to be counter-intuitive but the more I dig into it the more it makes sense.

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My Reading Process

While thinking about how I read, it seems simple and a tad meta. Simple is the ultimate sophistication, or so a billboard near the โ€œLโ€ in Chicago once said. Well, I love simple so, naturally, this turned out to be a lot of fun to write.

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How To Create Memorable Gatherings

There are four things to get right for an experience to be memorable. You need to have a specific Purpose in mind, you need to bring together the right People, and you need the right location to Place them in. Once these are set, you can overlay a variety of Structures that aim to produce your ideal end goal.

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Fears in Decision Making

How does this decision fit with a desire to live a balanced, fulfilling, and meaningful life filled with genuine, high-quality relationships? If you start here, I'm confident youโ€™ll only have good options to select from. A chance to win big or win small, no loss.

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Life's Margin of Safety

By building connections with others, we become resilient to the messiness of life. As these connections are tested, they are strengthened. The more often you are there to help others, the stronger trust grows and both parties can handle tougher situations.

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Wisdom and Epicurus

Epicurus once said that โ€œthe wise will accomplish three things in their life: leave written works behind them, live financially prudent and provide for the future, and cherish country living.โ€

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Friendship

Friends are a powerful force. In their presence we talk, listen and feel differently. Usually, for the better. Ralph Waldo Emerson explains this well in his beautiful Friendship essay. We should treat friendship with the roughest of courage. โ€œWhen friendships are real, they are the solidest things we know.โ€

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Book Notes: The Upside of Stress

Reacting to stressful situations with an optimistic mindset literally causes your body to produce different levels of hormones, positively (oxytocin, cortisol, and DHEA). In some cases, this may be as simple as telling ourselves we are excited to have the experience instead of trying to calm ourselves or trick our minds in ways that would avoid the stress.

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Notes on Hobbies

A hobby is a perfect way to challenge our patience, stimulate curiosity, and lean into the scary, rare, and necessary feelings of being a novice. As I've re-considered items I would enjoy as a hobby, I realize one difficulty lies in simply beginning.

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